Saturday, February 17, 2024

My First Premier League Game! Tottenham Hotspurs against Wolverhampton

I'll be honest. I had never heard of Wolverhampton (or "the Wolves") before today. I have never watched more than about 15 minutes of a Premier League game. But I enjoy it and would watch it if it was on. And I super loved watching the first season of Welcome to Rexham. 

Koby had been really into the Spurs lately, so I asked Matt to ask around at work and see how we can get tickets. They're sold out - like for years. I kept looking on stubhub, and tickets (when available, which isn't often) were like £400 each. Yeah. No. But...one of the guys who went skiing with Matt knew someone in the office who has season tickets in Tottenham and sometimes he sells them (at cost). Matt was able to snag two pairs for two different games. I can't make it to the next one, so it was today or never. I was a bit nervous, but I heard they have been limiting hooligan shenanigans, and I also heard daytime games are less scary, so off we went.

Koby and I left the house TWO HOURS before the match. We took the tube to Seven Sisters, in Tottenham, and we followed the crowd out of the station and into the 35 (!!!) minute walk to the new -  GORGEOUS - stadium. There is an overground train that goes there, and there were buses, but they were all full. No choice. 

It was like walking to a Michigan football game. You just follow the crowd. But here they were ALL (ok 98%) in dark coats. Nearly all male. And mostly between 20 and 80 - very few kids - but all ages of men. It wasn't rowdy. Just lots of people walking. A few of the bars on the way had signs in the window that said "home team fans only." Which was kinda funny.

We got to the stadium and there were literally thousands of people (men in dark coats) POUNDING beers. I just thought it was all fun and social until I read that you can't bring alcohol into the seated part of the stadium. They each had between 2-4 beers (and sometimes more) and just drank them. One by one. Koby got fish and chips. I used the toilet and got water. I felt a little unfun.

We found our seats, and the stadium was truly beautiful. Comfortable. Clean. Easy to navigate. No line for the ladies toilets, obviously. EVERY. SINGLE. SEAT was taken (mostly by a man in a dark coat). And there were no bad seats. We didn't have great seats, and we could see super well. When they started introducing the players and the game started, everyone sang along to everything. There were cheers. There were songs. Everyone knew the words. It was so interesting. The only thing I could understand was "oh when the saints" - otherwise, I have no idea what they were saying. 

Koby and I guessed how many people were in the stadium. I compared it to Michigan Stadium, which seats 111,000, and I guessed 60,000. It was 61,000 - I was impressed with myself. Koby guessed 57,000 after my anchor guess.

There were three goals in this game, and only 1 of them belonged to Tottenham, so the crowd was a bit disappointed. In fact, they BOOED THEIR OWN PLAYERS!!! They yelled at people who were hurt to "JUST GET UP!!!" and when they did get up, instead of clapping, as they do for injured players in the US, everyone BOOOOOED!!! They were angry - all of them - all of the men in the dark coats - with nearly every call that the refs made. Hands thrown up in unison. 

The people around us in the seats did not talk to us at all (would have been nice to have a translator, but no one seemed interested). It was mostly men there alone - they didn't really talk to anyone, but they sang all of the cheers and complained about the calls out loud. But on the train on the way there and on the overground on the way home, nice men talked to us about going to the game, and their first Premier League game. It was nice - what a culture of football here. It's such a thing, and today we got to experience it for ourselves. SUPER fun.

Outside the stadium

All of the men drinking their beers before the game started

We were in the south stand

I can't get my videos to load here. will try another time.

Skiing in France: Les Arcs

Wow are we lucky. Last year in April we met friends' friends whom we loved, and they said they have skied all over Europe and loved Les Arcs. We knew nothing about skiing in Europe, but their judgement seemed worthy of trust, so last May, I booked a package in Les Arcs 1950 (as recommended), including ski equipment, pass and ski school for the boys. EVERYWHERE on the website it said refundable, fully cancelable, etc., so I figured I might as well just book, and we could do more research and cancel if we needed. I super wanted to ski there - especially after I looked into it a bit, but I was just keeping our options open.

Come August, and Matt said he had bad news and he didn't want to ski in Europe. He wanted to go to the Middle East or really anywhere else. I super reluctantly tried to cancel, but when I tried to cancel online, it wouldn't let me. I called, and they said that YES, there was a refundable fare, but that wasn't what I booked. We had the non-cancellable fare. I booked too quickly and didn't pay attention. I felt pretty bad, since Matt didn't want to go, but I (not so secretly) really wanted to go, and I was kinda happy we were stuck with it. Luckily, Matt went skiing with colleagues in Switzerland a few weeks earlier, and he loved it and got excited about this trip in the end.

Last Saturday we flew to Lyon, France (from Luton - first time out of that airport), we got picked up and driven into the mountains. It was raining. It was dark. We could see nothing. 2.5 hours later, we saw lots of snow and we entered a car park. The village we were staying in had a car park underneath and a road next to it, but only skiing and walking in the village itself. At midnight we arrived to our room. Felt like northern Michigan. In the early 90s.

Up at 7, because we had to find our ski pass, find our ski rental and get to ski school by 8:50. Even though we had barely any information with our reservation, we found it all, scrounged whatever snacks we brought on the plane for breakfast, and Koby and Elie went off with their ski school (and somehow we got them placed in the correct levels). Sam wanted to try skiing (go Sam - they had a bad experience in New Hampshire two years ago and had vowed never to ski again), so Sam, Matt and I went to explore. Within a minute, Sam was done and wanted to go back. Matt and I had an amazing time finding our way around the mountain. We could ski back to get the boys, eat lunch at our place and go back out. There were a few trips to the indoor and outdoor pool. There was a LOT of Splendor and Lost Cities (our current two fav board games), there was a lot of ipad, and holy cow there was a lot of skiing. We skied all day for five days and Elie and I had a half day the last day (and Matt had a bit too). 

The mountain was so fun to navigate. We literally skied for that many days and there were still many parts of the mountain we didn't get to. It was especially fun when we didn't have a time commitment (like ski school pick up), and we could just go anywhere and end up anywhere and find our way back. Especially when Matt and I were together, so if we got stuck on a harder trail, it was ok. They don't really have green trails, they have blue, which are mostly slow and lovely, though they have some challenging parts. They have red, and they have black. We did no blacks. I loved the blues and reds. Elie did some reds the last few days (well!). Koby was a blue guy. Matt was great on blues and reds. Sam hated it all but tried the first two mornings. 

A few days we stopped at a restaurant or cafe on the mountain for lunch or hot chocolate. A small fortune, but such a fun experience. One was even an igloo. The walls were literally made of snow and ice with amazing carvings. The restaurants in the village were eh. We ate out twice - once for pizza and once we had fondue and the kids had burgers, nuggets etc. Otherwise, we visited the Carrefour and got food to prepare at home. 

Sam mostly watched tv and texted with friends and read about ten books. They found a friend from cheder in the village and went to visit them at Club Med in our area one day (there was a free shuttle - they went alone!). 

The boys passed their levels and really improved. I absolutely loooooooved the skiing. It was a bit crowded, but we survived. Friday we got a beautiful ride back to Lyon and flew back to London (Gatwick - pain to get back from!). 

It was a WONDERFUL week. (Ok, many of the photos and videos really look the same, but it's so hard to cut).



Sam skiing!

boys fencing. we got our skis from a locker just to my left, under our hotel room. We skied under that bridge and through the village to get to a lift and off we went.

a top of a trail

on a lift

top of another trail. amazing views

was super cloudy that first day - we didn't even realize what we were missing

the igloo bar

igloo for real!

ice sculptures in the igloo bar

day 2 w sam

sam!

I took the boys in the afternoon on day 2


sam coming back from the bakery. def got some stares. yes - no pants (trousers).

lunch day 3 at a cafe on the mountain

dinner out - matt and i had fondue. was good to try. no need again.

we had lots of dates on the mountain while the boys were in ski school

what a view!


elie and i went alone one afternoon, and we went on some harder trails




ski instructors put on a show jumping one night. we stood on the bridge in our hotel to watch